목요일, 11월 23, 2006
My poor jaejoong
Dong Bang Shin Gi member, Young Woong Jae Joong (20• real name: Kim Jae Joong) is currently involved in a paternity/DNA testing case.On the first of November, Mr. Han (49), who claims he is Young Woong Jae Joong’s biological father, filed a claim against Young Woong Jae Joong’s adoptive parents demanding that a paternity test be performed to prove that he is the biological father. The Dae Jun Court will begin taking in this case on the 29th of this month as reported by a news program aired on the 21st.Mr. Han claims that in the latter half of the 1980s, he divorced Young Woong Jae Joong’s biological mother and turned over all custodial rights to his son to her. He says it was just recently that he found out that his ex-wife had turned over custody of their son to non-relatives and that they had taken him in and raised him as their own and he wants a paternity test to prove his relation to his son. Mr. Han stated, “I was obligated to file for the test after finding out that, not relatives, but a third party couple was raising my son” and, “These adoptive parents did not file any adoption paperwork, but filed papers claiming that my son was their biological son.”An attorney commented, “Even if it is revealed that he really was adopted and that Mr. Han is the biological father, it will be difficult for Mr. Han to legally claim him as his own.” Additionally, “If action is to be taken on this case, there will be investigation into the adoption process that was taken , in addition to DNA testing for Young Woong Jae Joong.” “Even if it is proven that his adoptive parents did not correctly file adoption papers, it will be very difficult for Mr. Han to try and legally claim Young Woong Jae Joong as his son because the adoptive couple can claim that it was necessary to fully bring Young Woong Jae Joong into their family.” The adoptive couple’s lawyer states that there is no problem on their behalf because it was necessary for them to claim Young Woong Jae Joong as their own to completely adopt him.When Dong Bang Shin Gi fans got hold of this news, they couldn’t hide their worry and frustration. Fans commented, “He must be hurting so much.” “This must be so hard on you. Be strong.” And other statements such as “It’s so frustrating and sad that his private life is being scattered publicly just because he is a celebrity.”Afterwards on the 22nd through SM Entertainment Youngwoong Jaejoong revealed "I found out i had birth parents who gave me the name Han Jaejoong a few years ago. My parents who raised me until now and my birth mother are in a good relationship i think the present is more important than the past. I want to be Kim Jaejoong and will continue to be Kim Jaejoong. I want both of my parents to be one family and love each other."
On the 21st right after the news of his paternity lawsuit was revealed, we spotted YoungWoong Jaejoong at the backstage of the KBS 'Korea-China Concert' waiting for his turn. He was fumbling with his cell phone and looked a little dark but had a little smile on his face. But in reality he is probrably holding in his tears.
20 year old YoungWoong Jaejoong wants to cry but he can't and went on a stage with fancy lighting. He had to wear fancy outfits and sing in front of thousands of people. He had to do the dance he had rehearsed with the other members. At these times a celebrity is fancy on the outside but inside its a sad job.
YoungWoong Jaejoong, Micky Yoochun and Junjin all have sad family histories but their situation is different. Micky Yoochun and Junjin revealed it themselves but YoungWoong Jaejoong's family history was revealed when the news of his paternity lawsuit was recieved by the media & press. He did not have the time to prepare for this kind of thing and it was revealed to the public in an instant.
Most netizens who read about Youngwoong Jaejoong's situation felt sad for him. Just because he is a celebrity, his private life cannot be protected. The family history he did not want the public to know about got revealed and this made the netizens feel more sad.
credits to: Soompi forumsHis reply in the relay diary:
Hi, This is Yeong-woong Jaejoong.
Looking around, we can feel autumn,from beautifully tinged autumnal trees. It has already passed middle of autumn. ^^
Now, TVXQ has already had two months of promotion for the third album “O”-正.反.合.".
On the stages singing joyful songs, I could feel that your love has been even more deepened (than before),and I also want get closer to you.
Last week, in the Autumn Trip with you,I felt a kind of....easiness and composure of mind...
It was always we who prepared performances for fans.But last week, we were the audience,watching and enjoying your various performances,so my mind was contendedly full with happiness.
I preciously keep the happy moments in my mind:
the moment that you guys carefully listened to us when we talked,
the moment that you ate those side dishes which we(TVXQ members) gave out,
and also the moment that we took pictures altogether, sharing our feeling about the trip!
It was such a joyful time that I keep in mind. I hope to have a chance again with all of you! ^^
Yesterday, I thought about really many things all day long.
I have real parents,but it is a memory when I was young, so I didn't know any detail.
After I came to know my real mother,I kept in contact with her quite often,and my real parents and adoptive parents have had good relationship.
I don't know very well whether the lawsuit that my real father started is serious enought to lead to a trial,
but I am TVXQ's Kim Jae-joong at present, and hope to live as Kim Jae-joong in the future, too.
So I will be a good son for both of two parents,and I hope all of them have a good relationship.
The weather is very capricious. Get an injection so that you would not catch a cold,and please keep loving TVXQ album!!!
One more,you guys know that we also love "you are my miracle", the song you really love, don't you? *^^*
Credits: heroshock.net
Hiaks. One wave after another. I really think 2006 is a bad year for all the 5 of them.
*frustrated*
Well, i dunno what to say anymore. I know this aint as bad as the previous antifan incident with yunho, but this is jaejoong n his family's own private matter so i dun see why it had to be that public. And knowing jaejoong's character, he will be bound to keep everything within himself n appear strong to his fans.
Argh.
No matter its han jaejoong or kim jaejoong, the fact is he is still young woong jaejoong n forever will be. So i really hope he will not be affected badly by this. To the lousy biological father who apparently only wants jaejoong back after seeing his success (isnt it obvious?), pls leave him alone since u were the one who gave him up in the first place. To his adoptive parents, u dunno how grateful the fans are to both of u, for bringing him up the way he is n for treating him like your own son.
Lastly to jaejoong, i think the happy moments that u shared with mr n mrs kim, n ur 8 elder sisters throughout this 20 years is something that cant be faked, even though there might not be any blood relations. For it can only goes to show one thing, n that is everyone loves jaejoong from the bottom of their hearts~
Including me.
I really wish to give him a tight hug now, n tell him that everything will be alright.
Yunho, yoochun, junsu n changmin, pls do that for me. I know he loves the 4 of u more than anything in the world.
Luckily, there is one thing im really really very grateful for. I am glad that they broke the news to him privately a few years back cos the emotional stress would have been unconceivable if he knew it only thru the press.
Imagine that.
But it really made me so sad when i read that he cried for a day when he first knew it, n he cried again when the press released it the day before.
Darn the media.
I think today will be another blue day.
=(
mrs jung..im sad.
또 울어버렸다.. @ 1:14 PM